Influencing
The ability to alter another person’s thinking or behaviors.
Leverage the Steps to effective influencing
# Keys
- Clarify measurable results
- Find vital behaviors
- A vital behavior is an action an individual takes at a pivotal moment in the context of the change they are seeking.
- Use the six sources of influence
- Personal motivation
- Personal ability
- Social motivation
- Social ability
- Structural motivation
- Structural ability
# Common influencing mistakes
- Approach the audience aggressively.
- Resisting compromise
- Failing to establish credibility, frame for common ground, or connect emotionally
- Assume agreements can be worked out in a single conversation.